Rocking my Inner Warrior & Rockstar. Photography: Tabatha Mudra Make-up & Hair: Kyanna Rodriguez AKA: Miracle worker with a capital M

Rocking my Inner Warrior & Rockstar. Photography: Tabatha Mudra Make-up & Hair: Kyanna Rodriguez AKA: Miracle worker with a capital M

Rocking Motherhood and a crooked, messy bun with my two sons. Photography: Apple iPhone Make-up: Mascara from Target because it was a good day. Hair: Me, can't you tell?

Rocking Motherhood and a crooked, messy bun with my two sons. Photography: Apple iPhone Make-up: Mascara from Target because it was a good day. Hair: Me, can't you tell?

Our failures and mistakes don’t define us. It’s how we rise to the occasion after the fall that does.

For those of you that need to be ensured I am legit, here's a brief snapshot of some of what I've done in the past.  (Distinct from who I am)  For the formal stuff, you can check me out on LinkedIn.  

  • 15+ years working for Fortune 500 companies

  • Bachelor of Arts, Organizational Leadership

  • Master of Science, Public Policy

  • Graduate of Accomplishment Coaching (this was no joke, you're talking one year of rigorous and intense high-quality International Coach Federation approved coach training by leaders in the industry)

  • Program Facilitator & Coach for the Hispanic Alliance for Career Enhancement (HACE)

  • Contributing Author of Today's Inspired Latina, Vol. I

  • Vice-President of the Chicago Women's Success Circle

  • Foster America Fellow

  • StartingBloc Fellow

  • Lots of volunteer experience! Hotline Counselor of a Suicide Prevention Center, Advocate for Abused and Neglected Children, Life Skills Facilitator for Jail Inmates, Team Member for Faith-based Retreats, Grief Support Facilitator and Board Member of a Drug Advocacy and Prevention Group to just to name a few.

The Warriors I learned the most from...my parents.

The Warriors I learned the most from...my parents.

The Real Deal

Hey there, Warriors!  My photos might give you the impression that I live a rockstar life but most days, the only thing I'm rocking is a messy bun and not even the cute type.  I'm a single mom to two amazing and adventurous boys who will talk your ears off if you let them.  Did I mention I'm an introvert?   

I am 100% Mexican-American and equal percent Wanderer.  When poet Robert Frost talks about the path less traveled, that's me.  I have never been known to take the easy route or to conspire with the status quo.  At heart, I am a seeker.  My curiosity to understand myself, others and the world around me is what defines me.  I’m not afraid to ask the hard questions or show my vulnerability in saying, “I’m in my crucible moment”.  I believe this level of vulnerability allows others to show up as they are. Life, itself, has been my best teacher.  In other words, a lot of failing and learning through getting my butt kicked.

I had a pretty awesome childhood despite my two left feet.  I've never gone a day without food nor shelter, have two healthy and happy boys and have always had a handful of people to call in my darkest hours.  And there have been some pretty dark hours. 

The hardest battles have been the ones I have had to fight within myself. Going on the inward journey required courage and a willingness to face  my shadows head on.  It is work but the transformation has been immensely gratifying. I couldn't do it without God, support from family, friends, mentors and coaches.

Warriors, we are in perilous times.  We cannot conquer what we do not confront.   If we want the world to experience more justice, we have to become more just.  If we want more peace, we have to find peace within ourselves.  If we want to love others, we must learn to love ourselves first.  We cannot impart what we do not have.  

My vision is to see women across the globe walking in their full power, purpose and authority.  When we exhibit the boldness and confidence of knowing who we are, we have the capacity to serve our purpose and be the change we wish to see in this world. From that place, we can make create a ripple effect of positive changes that will impact the greater good for years to come.

I invite you to join me on this journey.  We are powerful as individuals but we are life-changing together.

Love & Courage,

Ruby

 
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